Toddlers
Toddlers are wonderful—and exhausting.
One minute your toddler is affectionate, curious, and eager to help. The next, they're refusing to get dressed, melting down because you peeled the banana the "wrong" way, or insisting on doing everything themselves.
If this sounds familiar, take heart. Your toddler isn't trying to be difficult. They're doing the important work of becoming their own person.
During the toddler years, children are developing independence, language, self-awareness, and strong opinions. They want more control over their world, but they don't yet have the brain development to manage frustration, disappointment, or big emotions. That's why tantrums, power struggles, and testing limits are so common at this age.
The good news is that toddlers learn best through connection. When we understand what's happening developmentally, we can guide behavior with empathy and clear limits while helping children develop the self-regulation they'll need for the rest of their lives.
The resources below will help you navigate toddlerhood—from discipline, tantrums, and aggression to sleep, potty learning, and the everyday challenges of life with a growing, determined child.
Start Here
The foundations of peaceful parenting during the toddler years. Learn what drives toddler behavior and how to guide your child with connection, empathy, and clear limits.
Development & Growing Independence
Toddlers are becoming their own people. Learn how children develop emotional intelligence, social skills, confidence, and independence during this remarkable stage.
Daily Life with Toddlers
Practical support for the everyday challenges of toddlerhood, including routines, separation, brushing teeth, diaper changes, weaning, bottles, and life transitions.
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Routines that Toddlers Can Understand
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Your Toddler or Preschooler and Screens
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How To Get Toddler To Brush teeth
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19 Ways To Keep Your Baby or Toddler Happy During Diaper Changes
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Going back to work - Helping toddler adjust
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Working Mom Asks How to Be More Attached or Connected to Toddler?
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How to get toddler to give up her bottle?
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14 Tips for Gentle Weaning
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How to Change Toddler's Nursing Schedule Without Weaning
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Weaning a Toddler: Fixation on Breasts
Discipline, Tantrums & Big Feelings
Learn how to handle power struggles, whining, defiance, and emotional meltdowns while helping your toddler develop self-regulation. For more help with challenging behavior, visit the Discipline Guide and the Tantrums Guide.
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Toddler Discipline: What Every Parent Needs to Know
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Discipline for Defiant, Spirited Toddler
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Discipline for Young Toddlers
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Tantrums: What’s Really Going On—and What to Do
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Cozy Corners and Co-regulation to Calm Your Child
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How to Sidestep Toddler Power Struggles
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The Cure for Whining
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Whining, Tantrums in almost-2 year old -- Does she just need to cry?
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Toddler Whines Nonstop
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Discipline and Rules for Toddlers - How do kids learn responsibility?
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19 Ways To Keep Your Baby or Toddler Happy During Diaper Changes
Hitting & Aggression
Why do toddlers hit, bite, pinch, throw, and grab? Discover how to respond with firm limits, connection, and guidance that helps children learn better ways to express themselves. For more help with challenging behavior, visit the Anger and Aggression Guide.
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When Your Toddler Hits You: A Script
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18 month old toddler tantrums with hitting & head banging
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Toddler Hitting Other Kids at Playgroup
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Toddler Hitting When Mom's Attention is Elsewhere
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Toddler- Biting, Hitting Mom and Dad
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Toddler Testing Limits: Hits and Throws Toys
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How To Stop Your Toddler From Hitting Older Siblings
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How to Stop Biting at Preschool
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Toddler Biting
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Toddler Pinching Playmates
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Neighbor's Preschooler Hitting and Bullying My Toddler
Eating, Sleep and Potty Learning
Gentle guidance for common toddler challenges around food, sleep, and potty learning. For additional support, visit the Sleep Guide and Healthy Eating Guide.
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Help Your Toddler Develop Healthy Food Habits
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Feeding Your Toddler
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Toddler has become Picky Eater: Getting him to eat healthy food?
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Help Your Toddler Learn to Put Himself to Sleep
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Toddler Takes Two Hours To Fall Asleep
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Helping Toddlers Nap
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Easy Child-Led Potty Learning
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Toddler with Potty Learning Fears
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Potty Training Power Struggles with Toddler who won't go
Emotion Coach Through Meltdowns With More Confidence
We created this cheatsheet to help you stay grounded, respond with empathy, and support your child through overwhelming emotions with more connection and confidence.